What is the 3 gift rule?
The 3 gift rule is a way to cap presents at three per person. Families set their own version, and we found no official source for one. A simple split is something they want, something they need and something to share. It keeps spending in check and works well for kids, couples and gift swaps.
A simple three-gift split
- Something they want The one gift from their wish list that matters most.
- Something they need A practical item that makes a daily routine easier.
- Something to share A game, a meal out or a film night you will enjoy together.
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